EP 52: Build community with depth, authenticity and integrity

Have you always been a natural leader and are typically the one to initiate connection? It’s time to own your gift and create the community of your dreams! Tanya shares a lifetime of experience in building community including how to deal with issues that come up, shift ownership and control to a co-creative leadership model, and build community both online and locally in person.

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Listen to Episode 52 as Tanya Uncovers:

  • The four stages of every community and how having this awareness can support a community to thrive
  • The #1 mindset shift to create the community of your dreams
  • How “heart resonance” is a critical aspect of community building to change the world

What you’ll discover:

2:30 – the homestead meme

2:50 – story of Tanya growing up in community
5:45 – mindset – if I don’t create it, I won’t be included/invited – light and shadow
7:50 – how to empower the leadership in others without me being there
9:30 – circle theme – everyone is so busy, people want community but not able to be present in it
11:15 – fitting in vs belonging – getting out of ego
โ€œYou are only free when you realize you belong no placeโ€”you belong every placeโ€”no place at all. The price is high. The reward is great,โ€ Angelou told Bill Moyers in a 1973 interview.
callingย out and compassion for ego
15:15 – The Different Drum – M Scott Peck
17:30 – 4 stages of community
17:57 – stage 1:ย  psuedo community
19:30 – light aspect
20:22 – stage 2: chaos
21:50 – spiritual elitism
22:10 – if not dealt with, the community/circle falls apart and leader is scapegoated
23:40 – stage 3: empty out
25:20 – stage 4: real community
27:00 – how this is the antidote to the cancel culture prevalent today
28:10 – diversity as important aspect of community
28:50 – how to navigate challenges with this framework
30:00 – back to “tribe” – ache
30:45 – feeling bored and desiring depth in social situations
32:25 – we create our world through our thoughts – first step to create community is changing the thoughts and words coming out of your mouth – flip the switch “I’m calling in”
35:40 – calling out and emptying out the judgment to create community at the party
36:30 – the choice you have
37:10 – the community is connected through a core circle who holds the values and the facilitator who holds that
39:20 – heartmath – understand frequency of the heart – tracking and harmonizing
42:20 – harmonizing an “aum” chant as an example
43:45 – a calm nervous system impacts all the nervous systems around – group co-regulation

Power Quote from the Show

โ€œYou are only free when you realize you belong no placeโ€”you belong every placeโ€”no place at all. The price is high. The reward is great,โ€ Angelou told Bill Moyers in a 1973 interview.

Links from Today’s Show

The Different Drum book by M. Scott Peck

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Ready to build your community?

If you are someone who feels the call to become an influential community builder, email me to connect: support@sistershipcircle.com

About Tanya Lynn

Tanya Lynn is a “strategic activator” and the visionary CEO of Sistership Circle, a global organization that offers leadership training for women to reveal themselves and step into their power, so they start their own circle business. Tanya has been internationally facilitating, coaching & leading groups of women since 2006. Along her journey, she has found that balancing the masculine and feminine holds the secret to BEING a brave woman who is fully seen, heard, and celebrated as her true self while actualizing her dreams.

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